Thank you all so very much ... things are settling down but I still find myself busy as well as taking it very easy post c section ...
Due to a history of difficult delivery last time with broken coccyx from dd number 2 that has fused in front of my birth canal my OB checked on Tuesday last week if he thought Joshua would fit through .. he thought it was gettting risky and offered me and elective c section. I declined and asked if I could trial a labour before he got too much bigger. It was agreed I would go in the next day at 38 plus 3.
When my Ob attempted to break my waters the cord got in the way and nothing could be done to risk of cord prolapse .. I also could not go home and had to stay .. I was offered a section again but asked to wait a bit and be reassessed later in the day ... later on I was 4cm and my Ob broke my waters .. no contractions nothing ... Joshua had a few epsisodes of tachy heart rate and I began to worry ... OB offered me synto after a while but my heart told me that I could go through all that and still maybe have a section if he did not fit ... all my bodily instincts told me to just get him out and that I as not going to labour after all .. all of my past labours have been very hard and fast and this just did not start ... I was so sick as I had to fast after the cord prolapse risk and had been quite sick the 2 days prior as well from hg ... so much so that I was so dry they had so much trouble getting a line in for the c section and had to rapid infuse a bit for me and I was still so sick.
After though I feel so great to be hg free ... My son was so worth it ... as was all my babes or I would not go back I guess.
After all that Joshua was my smallest baby at 6 pound 13.5 ounces (3.1kg) and head 35cm and length 50cm. He is a delight to our life and family and is now whinging for a feed so better go and oblige .... my older kids just say you did a great job growing him MUm .. so nice to hear that from them .. esp when they are older this time than when my other children were born .. they understand so much more now.
I will post a pic when I can I promise.
Thank you again and much love to you all!!!
ok why will my pic not work