Hi Jane,
Sorry I didn't post last night as I said...fell asleep and was out from 9pm til 10am. That's tired, eh?
Welcome to the forum. It's such a relief to be among women who understand. For me, I had never met (in person) a woman with hg until about two weeks ago when I learned one of the other preschool moms had hg twice.
The statistics are high for peri and post natal depression with hg, and with a history of depression (I have one too), you are at higher risk. There are treatments available if necessary, but have you considered therapy to express your concerns and to grieve the loss of a normal pregnancy? Also, staying hydrated and getting vitamins in the IV if you are on fluids will help the depression. Are you able to get around at all? Walk, keep vitamins down, keep any fluids in?
The isolation and loneliness can be overwhelming. Have you requested a hg buddy yet? You can be connected with an hg survivor who will offer support. PamelaRose is the coordinator. The thread to get a buddy is in "New to Forum--Pregnant."
Wendy said,
[quote]When I was pregnant with this last child it was terrible. . . .I went through a time when I just didn't want to be pregnant at all. The pregnancy was a complete shock and I wasn't very happy about it to begin with, then when I wound up with HG, I was devastated.[/quote]
I could have written that. I was so desperate that I asked my doctor to take the baby out at my first appointment. Thank God, she just laughed at me, which at the time wasn't a good thing as I wanted to kick her. With this baby, Hope, nothing was working with the hg, I was in the ER twice before 9 weeks; I tried many medications. I was miserable and thought life couldn't get worse. I was wrong. Sadly, there is no happy ending for me. I should be 32 weeks but am not as I miscarried in May. Now I'm facing postpartum depression with empty arms. I tell you this because I wish someone had told me: love your baby right now, while you can...no matter what, you want your child to experience your love, especially during the hg and depression. I didn't give that to my daughter as I was too angry. Now I must wait a life time to tell her I love her.
Hg and depression are horrid. We will do whatever we can to support you. Please let me know if I can do any research or check on resources for you.
Best,
Suzanne