This is more of a vent....
Im just feeling so overwhelmed by Katie. Im sure youve picked up from bits and pieces of other posts, she is a VERY collicky,very high needs baby. And, nothing like my experience with Madison.
Im sure many of the issues we have with her are due to her prematurity, but, after COUNTLESS weeks of listening to her scream, etc, Im just so DRAINED.
And, after this week of dealing with Katie having a cold, MAdison getting 2 stomach bugs, Rich getting his big V (so, he was of no help to me), and then HIM getting the stoamch bug.... not to mention Im getting next to no sleep, and Ive felt crummy too.... well, I just feel so ANGRY at most of the people in my life.
I guess, I feel especially angry that NO ONE in our family has offered to every once in a blue moon throw me a helping hand. They all knew Rich would be incapitated due to his prodedure, and I was told I cant take Katie out of the house for 2 weeks, and yet, no one offered to do ANYTHING. Like, maybe bring dinner or come over and help out with the kids....
I feel like a horrible Mom, as I spend half of my day fantazing about NOT being with my kids.... having a life outside of this house. But, I know I cannot put Katie in any type of daycare.
Im just feeling so horribly down this afternoon..... I know it will get better, but Im feeling so resentful to everybody for not offerning any help. And, I hate to sound like Im complaining.... its just, Im the first to offer help, bring over a dinner, etc.... and I feel like no one cares to return the niceneess??? if that makes sense.
I need some time away from my kids.... and I need to be more than the 10 min I get when Im in the shower every few days.
And, even angry at Rich, as he felt too crummy to to anything around here (which is fine, cuz hes recouperating, and had a stomach bug), but AMAZINGLY feels good enough to go spray the car off (something he wanted to do). And, he took Madison outside, which I WANTED To do, since I havent been outside this house in DAYS. Not to mention, I would love some one on one time with her, WITHOUT dealing with Katie.
Thanks for listening to me vent.....