2006 seems so far from Hope. I know she is no further or closer from yesterday to today, but 2006 is so far away from 2004 and her short life. I was all weepy last night but hid it because I couldn't figure it out...when 2004 closed, I was beyond thrilled as it had sucked beyond measure. Dh and I stayed up to MAKE SURE 2004 left (we lost Hope, dh's best friend, and almost lost fil twice)...hated that year. Now I'm coming up on two years without her and just hate that too.
Joan Didion (writer) was on Nightline this week and she said something really profound, or I think it was. She lost her husband of 40 years and 38 year old daughter within a year...could that suck more? Didion said, "The insanity goes away but the loss never does."
I guess the insanity over losing Hope has passed for me, and being pg with Jack and having HG was a huge distraction from her loss in that year of firsts, but now I get to pass all the milestones of her life all over again without the same distractions...and...okay, this just sucks.
Big old grief suckfest at Suzanne's. Anyone else wanna come over? After we have our suckfest here, we'll all go to Jenny's new house for spa time. How's that sound?