This is something that is going to be very new to me. As Jack has been tube fed since day one, the feeding thing has been very different for me so I think it is going to take a big adjustment when Katie gets here.
Jack is tube fed on a 4-5 hourly schedule (used to be 2-3 when he was little) and we did overnight feeds when he was younger, but they probably stopped when he was around 5 months or so, I can't remember exactly (he gets 4 feeds during the day now). The difference is though, he never woke up or experienced hunger due to how it tube feeding orked.
So that's 2 counts actually. Feeding and having a crying, waking baby (he also slept *all* the way through since coming home, I think as he was so used to the "chaos" of being in special care for so long with the lights, monitors, alarms etc he got used to sleeping through anything!).
It will be a culture shock for me being woken up and having to do feeds (tube feeds although very frustrating today as I want Jack to eat/drink by himself, were very "convenient" back then in that I could do them when he was still sleeping so he was never disturbed, so sitting with a syringe is different to actually feeding and comforting and getting a baby back to sleep).
Anyway, in my rambling way, I'm saying that although I don't have any experience to the contrary, I think for me 4 months would probably feel a bit too soon for cry it out. I'd be more inclined, if I felt I had to resort to that, that 6 months would be a more suitable age. I mean 4 months - only 16 weeks old, it's still so young. I think if a baby *by themselves* sleeps through and is progressing ok then in that case it is fine to leave them be, I don't think I would wake them up to feed, but more do it on their schedule, but I don't think I could force them at that age to give it up. Having said that though, I've also never dealt with a screaming, crying baby (Jack has also never really cried - I have been so lucky, lol!), so I don't know what I'd do. I don't think I could do it though.
I think about all these types of things a lot on how different things are going to be this time. I'm going to be a second first time mother
. I have *no* clue how to deal with "normal" things