I didn't read all these before asking my question about the doctor. I see I'm not the only one. I know it sounds horrible, but the OB's really only care about the health of the baby. And while the baby IS what this is all about, how can you possibly have a healthy baby when the mommy is so miserable?
My doc literally kept saying, oh the baby won't starve, the baby is growing good, the baby is healthy.
I finally said.... "I don't mean to be insensitive, because I'm thrilled that my baby is healthy, but I AM NOT healthy or happy!" He really didn't care. That's why next time around I WILL find a doctor who will treat ME as well as my baby. How can they be so heartless? My step-mom says it's because he's a man. I guess, but I don't think I'd get much more sympathy from a woman doc. B/C most other women think I'm making it all up... it's all in my head.
I'm really sorry your doc is a jerk as well. I'm with you that I just keep hoping she'll come early. I didn't even have the nerve to ask him about induction because of his attitude. I figured he'd just laugh at me.
I know that dehydration will cause b/h contractions, and I even pondered just not even TRYING to eat or drink anymore and force her out of me. And then I realized how awful that was. But... seriously.... when us women have such thoughts... don't you think these are serious enough to warrant some help from our docs? You said you were deeply depressed.... that CAN'T be good for the baby. I know a lot of the thoughts I've had aren't good.
I keep trying to change my focus from being pregnant/sick/miserable to something... anything else, but it's just not working. It's all I can focus on.
( Good luck to you in the next few weeks!