Jenni -
I can't help you chooose, but I can tell you what I might (stress "Might", since I don't have to make the decision yet, and if I do, will probably be running to you for support
) decide, and bear in mind, I AM a proponent of "natural" childbirth, it actually took the birth of my third, with back labor all the way, to convince me that epidurals were
ever necessary. I lived through that one, but if I have so much as a twinge of back labor this time, I'm screaming for an epidural
That said, having been this sick this looooong (I've been back on 3 liters of IV fluid a day for 2 weeks (?) now); I'm ready for this to be OVER any way it can be!
Don't think a scheduled C will be an option for me, but if it were, I would be sorely tempted, especially as they could do a tubal ligation at the same time and eliminate the need for hubby's vasectomy. Much as I'd love to have a truly LARGE family (one sister has eight kids, couldn't you just choke her?) I could not live through this again, especially without preperation (as happened this time, since this pregnancy was unplanned). So basically, I guess I'm saying, that If
I had the choice, I'd grab it, but then again, if I were in your situation, not having done a vaginal delivery before, I can't say
Sorry, I know this probably wasn't helpful. Keep letting us know how you're mind's whirring as you make your decision, though, it may help some of us who aren't quite as far along as we make our own decisions later.