Hello- Jem here from Victoria Australia. I have been agonising over what to do. I definately thought 'NO MORE' after my 2nd hg pregnancy but, as my son nears 2 years old, that familiar clucky feeling is returning. And, as I found last time, the further away the last pregnancy was, the less real it seems.... this web site is a good reminder! We were/are still considering the option of adoption but it seems so be such an uncertain and expensive road, when I could JUST GET PREGNANT -HA! I dont know what to do?!?!
Anyway, the reason I am writing is I am hoping someone else from Victoria may know of a fabulous specialist that I can use (instead of a doctor who implied that I could afford to lose some weight). I know- I'm clutching at straws. This time, though, I feel empowered and grumpy! I WILL ask for what I need and want and I WILL NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER! On the other hand, I am a working Mum with 2 children and a husband that works long hours and, since my last hg experience, I have suffered from depression. I wish there were some easy answers! I only discovered this site after the birth of my second child - this too would have been an amazing source of support. It has grown and developed so much in those 2 short years!
Anyway, I would love to make contact with a Victorian Mum that may know some local secrets! Thanks!