I'm sorry if you've been dealing with those issues, Jil. As if HG wasn't bad enough, so many other areas of our lives are impacted, too.
There is a forum here called "No More for Me" where others have shared their struggles with balancing family planning and HG. You're certainly not alone with marital issues, and while we don't have a specific place for those concerns, you will find various discussions about similar issues in the Life forum. Your suggestion is a good one. Perhaps we could change the scope of the Impact of HG forum from just physical to include other long-term HG fallout.