Hello
First I need to say I'm sorry! I'm sorry that there are people that don't understand what you are going though. I'm sorry that there are husbands that can't feel your pain, and tell you it can't be that bad. I'm sorry that the ones you look to for support tell you it's just normal symptoms.
There is something else you need to know. There are people out there that do know how you feel. They know the pain you feel at 5 in the morning. They know what its like to not stand to smell, the good or the bad things in the world. They also know that at the peek of there pain they wish for a miracle. They Beg for help.
I can't tell you it will be all right. I don't know the future. What I do know is there is people that can help. People you can talk to. People that care. They have been through it and are here just for you. That's a promise I can keep. If you need a husbands point of view I am here any time you need an ear.
There is a reason I posted here. It's because I want the other men to know they are not alone either. Sometimes it helps to have another dude to talk to.
Good Luck
Neil Myers Jr