I have known my finance a total of 5 1/2 months and she has been pregnant with HG for 14 weeks. We had made plans to sell our houses, move in together and get married. It seemed so simple! HG has put everthing upside down. She lives 2 to 3 hrs away and I have my own hands on business. When she decides she's upset with me(which is most of the time); she will not call or reply to my emails, tell me how sick she is and how terrible of a job I'm doing taking care of her(this stresses me out incredibly).
Unfortunately, we did not have the time to put the proper foundations(home, family, marrige), in place which just adds more stress to an already impossible situation. At the moment she insists at staying at her home and refuses to move-in with me where I can be closeby and take care of her.
I must admit I was a DH, after getting ill advised advice from friends who were dad's and mom's, of course they were not aware of HG and said it was all in her imagination. Not Good! Thanks to this website I am no longer a DH, however, I not a 100% sure my finance will forgive me, she has a very hard head, a quality which I could do without, not forgetting her abundace of marvelous qualities which made our relationship move soo quickly.
All this to say,I do not know the best way to proceed, for the moment I'm giving her, her space. I call and email and tell her I love her everyday as many times as I can. Will we get through this and have the baby, house and happy marriage we were soo excited for?
Thank you for reading,