Hi, sorry you're having a hard time, but rest assured that we totally get you! It's really difficult being on bed rest, giving up your 'regular' life, and being so sick and isolated. People don't understand, and it's hard when you don't have a support network that understands what you're going through. I really rely a lot on these forums, because in the end, the ladies here are the only ones that 'get it' without needing to constantly explain myself and justify my feelings.
There are also a lot of women here that suffer with depression throughout HG and after (me included). Have you thought about going into some sort of counseling? You may not be well enough for that yet, but maybe keep it in mind once you are a bit more mobile. On top of the medication, it may help you adjust to HG and life with baby. And definitely don't feel badly for resenting baby...that's pretty common with an HG pregnancy. It's hard to feel connected when you're so sick...you use all your energy just to make it through the day and then you're spent after that. You'll have a whole lifetime to bond, once you're feeling better!
Don't forget you're not just laying around being sick, you're sacrificing your normalicy for another human being that you're working tremendously hard at growing. Give yourself the space to just "be", and realize that you're doing the best you can for a child that will forever be a part of your life.
DD1 born Jan 29, 2010. Mod-Severe HG. Started treatment at 5 weeks. c-section (breech)
DD2 born July 23, 2012. Severe HG started treatment at 4 weeks until birth. VBAC!