Who is done?

Discuss the triumph or heartache of not having more children, and the struggle to make that decision.

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Postby Carie » May 25, 2010 4:27 pm

I am soo done too!!!

I'm 18 weeks pregnant at the moment and have a fabulous 2.5 year old boy.

I knew I'd go through HG one more time but don't ever want to do it again!!!
Besides hubby only wanted 1 or 2.

Am so pleased so be half way there and over the worst of HG. :D
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Postby Atsie » May 26, 2010 5:38 am

After my first two kids I KNEW I wanted more. I KNEW I wasn't done. I was in the middle of Cscetion and asked how it effect my NEXT pregnancy. This time, I don't feel that way. I feel we are done. I can see the light at the end of the carseat/diaper tunnel and it looks GLORIOUS. We are in a hardplace right now though. I want one of us to get fixed. But DH is really really unsure about anything drastic. Which is honestly kind of sweet. He doesn't want more but he wants the possibility. And I wont have anything done until he is on board. I have an IUD so we should be good.

I am done.
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Postby TwinsPlusOne » Jun 25, 2010 1:30 am

we are done. my HG was bad both pregnacys. we have 3 kids, and the first two took fertility tretments to get. and then this last one i got prego on the pill.
both of us are sniped and cliped....
so done.
if we get prego again we are going to at least have the kids collage paid for! LOL
Rebekah & Heather. DOB May 7th 2008
5lbs 11oz & 5lbs 6oz 36w5d
Samantha Paige DOB Aug 15th 2009
6lbs 10oz 37w3d
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Postby desertsailor » Aug 02, 2010 11:24 pm

Am I allowed to still be pg and commenting that this is my last pregnancy? If so... *hops up and down wildly waving hands*. I am a bit sad to think I won't have more than one but after 3 hellish pg I'm SO DONE. lol W4e at least we have his 2 plus this one. There's always adopting if we want another one to ourselves.
Adrian my December angel lost 4/26/07 @ 6w4d Severe HG
Austin my June angel lost 12/2/09 @ 12w2d Severe HG
Caitlyn my August angel lost 1/23/13 @ 9w2d Severe HG
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My Sophie, born healthy with Zofran, potassium infusions, 4 months of iv's and lots of hope

Ready to throw in the towel. :-(
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Postby Cin » Aug 19, 2010 11:53 pm

My uterus has forced my hand. I have to be done now, like it or not. The surgeon told me after the last section there was extensive scarring and a few places that were almost paper-thin. He was so lovely and respectful of our beliefs, but he said he did not recommend another baby, because it was "very likely" I would rupture.

I'm pretty heart-broken about it, and yet four also seems like everyone is here, so perhaps the Lord is telling me he is done sending me babies. I just don't know anymore.

My Dh and I are in the middle of a furious argument about the V. It goes against our religious convictions, but he wants to get one because he is afraid for my life. So I don't know what happens next.
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Postby abbyjinxy » Jul 01, 2011 10:00 am

After this baby we are 110% done.
I am getting a TL during the C/S- and DH is getting a V!
We feel great about our decision (for a long time we struggled to decide if we wanted 2 or 3), so glad the decision is made and we can go forward!
Mommy to:
Katherine- Born 11/10/06 (HG)
Charles- Born 10/7/09 (No HG)

Pregnant with #3- due February 5th. C/S will be scheduled the week before.

HG Survivor!
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Postby kathleen » Jul 02, 2011 3:47 pm

I am sooooooooooo done.
Angels: 7/2/2004, 6/15/2010, 9/6/2010

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Postby Lori875 » Jul 06, 2011 1:36 pm

Got my tubes tied during the C-section. After the crappy sleeper that I have right now, there are no regrets. I am definitely, positively done!
Carter 4/08 HG 7-18wks
Caleah 4/11 HG 5-20wks
I've got my 2 babies, and I'm done!
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Postby Caitlin's mom » Jul 14, 2011 1:24 pm

I had the tubal papers signed at 20 weeks.not even going to chance DH getting the "V"-my body needs to know she's DONE!
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Postby KarenJ » Jul 14, 2011 1:44 pm

Put a fork in me.......so done!

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Postby lovemytannerman » Mar 18, 2012 9:32 pm

Done, Done, Done.

I have my tubes tied, if I get pregnant I'm kicking dh in the junk and giving my dr a black eye!
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Re: Who is done?

Postby DivineLotus » Jun 19, 2012 2:06 am

I'm done with my one and only. No more for me. No HG. I regret not getting my tubes tied when they offered. BC pills for now.
First/last HG baby.

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Noemi 4/11/11. HG 4-20weeks, little treatment, moderate. Zofran, reglan, B6, placenta pervia, lost 12lbs, depression, ptsd.

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