My husband's cousin was so happy to be pregnant. She's married, 27, and they'd been trying for a while. They finally got pregnant after fertility treatments- with twins. We found out right at Easter they were both boys. And then she had problems, dilating and effacing. They couldn't do a cerclage, because one of the bags was so low, they were concerned they'd rupture it. She's been on total bed rest and in the hospital, but just after Mother's day they couldn't stop it and one of her boys was born @ close to 22 wks, and lived an hour. She lost the other one on Thursday.
I feel so terribly for them and the entire family. There are no services planned. I don't even know what to do to try to help. I don't know if reaching out to them would hurt more than it would help (we're the ones with living twins).