Ok, lets set the scene. I take KimberlyAnn to the weigh in clinic this morning... There is a row of tables with changing mats on, you hand your baby book in at the desk on the way in, and then strip your baby down to it's nappy until the health visitor calls you over to weigh baby. I'm in the middle of taking her clothes off when the woman next to me says "awww isn't she cute, how old is she?" I tell her she's just over 6 weeks and she mentions how big she is for 6 weeks, Then I say "You wouldn't think it seeing as I couldn't eat for most of the pg, as I was so sick" She then says "Oh...You had morning sickness all the way thru huh?" I tell her no, it was HG, and give a brief description of what it is. She then says "did you try.....?" And rattles of a list of the usual m/s cures. I tell her nope, nothing worked at all. Then she says "Well there must be a reason why you were so sick, m/s usually goes away after 12 weeks" I tell her again... It's not m/s, it's HG. She then says "Well what causes it?" I say that there's no known cause. Her reply: "well there must be a reason why you got it" Yes...you must be right, maybe I done something really horrible in a past life, and this is my punishment. But instead I just tell her that it's one of those things, no known cause. She says "well didn't you go to your dr and get something for it?" I say yes, and I was on phenergan and Vit B6, but I was still poorly all the way thru, they just stopped me from barfing quite as much. She then says "sounds to me like there was an underlying cause and the hormones of pregnancy kicked it off" I was just about to get really antsy when the health visitor called me over, when I got to her she said "there was one person in front of you but thought I'd get you away from there, you looked like you were going to explode any second" I told her stupid people and stupid comments were not what I needed. She told me that people don't understand unless they have had it, and I should try to be patient with them. HUH
I'm beginning to think I should have dealt with things a little differently... Next time someone says she's big for her age I am just going to say "yes she is isn't she?" and be done with it.... Why oh why do I get myself in these situations!
Thank you, I feel much better now..lol